|Society still treats woman as outcasts|
When I did have energy I often used it to interact with others - whether it was my dad and his girlfriend who were taking care of me, or friends who came to visit, or friends and family I spoke to through Skype.
These short bursts sapped my strength, and left me needing long stretches of vegetative restoration. Time that demanded to be filled by something requiring no energy. Thankfully - and I say this with telegraphed irony - man's ingenuity had provided just such a device with flashing lights and squawking noises that bore an uncanny resemblance to real life.
There's nothing quite like TV to distract one from pain and discomfort. During my infirmity I noticed a disturbing trend. In just about every show the women were there merely as tokens. Either to serve as sex symbols to appeal to men, or to propitiate the other half of the population.
Women as a token sex symbol
It was almost always a man or group of men who lead. The men were expansive, could evolve and change character easily to adapt to situations. While the woman were more often than not typecast, solidified in the role as humorous distraction, or sexy color or devious villain. The roles they played weren't filled with the complexity of life. It's almost as if someone had once read about woman and tried to cast a character based on what they had read, rather than what they had experienced.
Now, it's quite probable that the shows I tend to enjoy aren't as good at expressing the full richness of women's interactions as others. Yet even as I think back across the years of TV I've watched, I'm hard pressed to name many woman who were as complex, rich and engaging as their male co-stars.
In recent years I've become more of a feminist. Not the chauvinistically created stereotype of an angry, man hating, bra burning, hairy armpit feminist. Rather, someone who notices the small everyday injustices against women, the additional burdens we bear, and is not willing to accept that status quo. I'll resist with quiet, polite and kind determination being typecast.
The realization I had about women in the media today is one I'm sure many others have shared. I'm shocked at how subtle it is, how it trains our daughters to stand in the shadows of men even if they're bright, hard working and competent.
Please share your examples of how women in the modern media are portrayed differently from men.